Why is it people always ask you if your pregnancy was planned. I think only two people have not asked me this, oh my mom is number three. But come on, is it really any of your business. Do people just have to ask this question like it’s the first thing that comes into their minds and they just blurt it or do they really think it’s their business?
Why do I have a compulsion to answer this question? No matter what, I answer-, even when it’s people I really don’t think they need to know. It just pops out of my mouth.
And if you are curious. No we didn’t plan this pregnancy and even Zane was a surprise. After not using birth control for six years and trying to concieve on and off Zane was a wonderful little surprise. I thought TJ and I would just not have children. But two years ago I got a positive test for my birthday.
And with six years to get Zane I figured it would take some work to get a second child. So yes this baby is a surprise and wasn’t planned on. But it is a wonderful blessing and surprise.