ManWifeDog invited me to a great new link up she has created: The Love Homework Linky Party. I am excited to join in. I have been having such a crazy week, okay month, that I know my poor little hubby is starting to feel a little neglected. I thought that this would be a great way to get a reminder to give him a little more love and would be a great way to get some new ideas.
This week’s challenge was easy:
Write a little message on a post it for your husband and leave it somewhere you know he’ll find it. What did you write? What was his reaction? Did it spark any interesting conversation?
What did I write?
It took me a little bit to figure out what I wanted to write on my note and I wasn’t super creative, but that’s okay I can’t be miss creative all the time!
TJ was going to stop on his way home to grab dinner for us, because I was hosting #commenthour yesterday evening. I really appreciate how much he does these evening that I host the chat. He gets the boys away and gives them their bath and puts them to bed on these evenings. Which a lot of wives talk about how their husbands just don’t understand this online world and he is so understanding about it. My online presence is a lot about my business and helping me grow it.
This made me want to let him know how much I appreciate his support with my business. He is my constant cheerleader as I try to grow my business!
So I quickly jot down on the note, “Thank you for supporting me in my business! <3 you so much!” and I placed the post it on our door where he would find it as he brought in the dinner.
What was his reaction? What was the conversation?
He right away asked me why I left the note. I let him know how much I appreciate him and his support. I let him know that even little things like picking up dinner mean a lot to me and really help me out. He had a goofy smile like I was silly to thank him for something he thought was so small.
He asked me if I really did feel like he was supporting me and this surprised me. I had always thought he had known how much I rely on him for support and that he was a huge support. But I must not say it enough or maybe I haven’t said it before. I suddenly was so happy I had left the post it note because it had told him something that I thought he had already known. Now he knows that he really is a support and that I even see the small things as so helpful.
So, thank you, ManWifeDog, I really appreciate your invite because even this little small thing really did help my husband and helped us communicate something that I thought had already been said!
As far as my other readers I hope you will join in! You might be surprised at what you find out in your marriage. You might have an aha moment just as I did! What is something you think you take advantage for in your relationship with your husband that he may need to hear from you?
If I could put a “You rock my socks” post it on your page I would! Thanks so much for joining in Pepper and helping to get the word out! It means so much.
Wow, you really did have an aha moment. I think it’s so cute that you put it on the door. I can imagine he was walking up to it like “what’s that?”. Who knew he didn’t know? it’s crazy how often we think the other person knows and understands something they in fact do not. My husband cleans and cook so much more than i do because of the way our schedules work out. I assume he knows I’m thankful but after reading this I feel like tonight I need to just stop him in the middle of the kitchen (while he has a pot in his hand and oven mitts on and all) and just say: “Honey you are SO awesome for making yummy dinner and cleaning when you get home from work. SO awesome! A thousand thank yous
wouldn’t be enough. I appreciate you!”
What was great was my neighbor came over and said to me ” you know you have a post it on your door right?” LOL
Yes you should def stop and let your hubby know you appreciate him and his efforts!
Ha! He forgot to take it down? That’s classic!
P.S. I think used the exact same post its to lead my hubby to his gifts on Valentine’s Day. We share great taste in post-its. See photos here:
http://manwifeanddog.com/2011/02/14/how-i-showed-my-husband-some-love-on-valentines-day/
I need to get in on this 😛
You def should!
After posting on the 25 blogs picked for commenthour, I remembered to pass by and leave you a little note. Kids in bed, husband at a business dinner, the house is quiet and now I can think.
Nice story with the post-it note. Sometimes we are nicer with strangers than with those close to us. These little things mean a lot.
What a great exercise! Your husband sounds wonderfully supportive and caring!
He really is supportive, he keeps me going even when I’m really struggling and encourages me when business is quiet.